Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Yuav ua li cas los yeej tub nkeeg? Saib rau lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem
Tub nkeeg - ib tug fashionable vice. Ib tug los yog rau lwm cov celebrity dares mus hais lus tawm, hais tias, zoo, Kuv yuav muaj tiav (la) ntau heev, yog hais tias tsis tub nkeeg. Uas yog to taub hais tias lub peev xwm ntawm ib tug txiv neej muab zais loj loj, tab sis tsis siv, vim hais tias cov txiv neej yog tsis ua zog. Feem ntau qhov no zoo ntawm coquetry. Ib tug txuj ci - ib yam dab tsi muaj teeb meem. Tab sis cia tus txhob tsom ntsoov rau lub peev xwm thiab txav mus rau rau lo lus nug "Yuav ua li cas los yeej tub nkeeg?"
Nyob rau hauv kev, nws yog tsim nyog los paub qhov txawv ntawm laziness thiab nkees heev. Yog hais tias koj ua hauj lwm (kev kawm) rau ntau tshaj 8 teev ib hnub twg, tab sis kev txhawj xeeb uas koj muaj peev xwm tsis ua hauj lwm 10-12 teev, koj - lub peev xwm tus neeg mob kws kho mob nrog ib tug mob ntawm "workaholism" thiab tsis tub nkeeg. Yog li ntawd koj yuav tsum tam sim ntawd txiav tawm ib qeb ntawm cov txawj nyeem ntawv thiab qhia lawv mus nrhiav kev pab los ntawm ib tug kws kho mob. Nws yog sib tsis tau mus teb cov lus nug "Yuav ua li cas los yeej tub nkeeg?", Yog hais tias ib tug tsis mloog cov kev xav tau ntawm lub cev thiab psyche.
Yog hais tias koj tsis ua hauj lwm thiab yuav tsis coj kuv tus kheej kom ua tus tsim nyog tshaj plaws, nws yog lwm cov teeb meem. Thiab ob qhov chaw yuav tsum paub qhov txawv cov mob ntawm "tub nkeeg." Nyob rau hauv ib cov ntaub ntawv, koj yuav liam ntawm laziness nyob ib ncig ntawm, thiab koj, nyob rau hauv tus, ib tug zoo tswv yim thiab thiaj li nyob. Siv tswv yim - xws txhais cov ntsiab lus ntawm lwm tus yuav tau xyuam xim ignored. Qhov no txhais tau tias koj xav kom ua hauj lwm, thiab koj tsis muab lawv nrog cov kev tsim tshwm sim. Yog li ntawd nws yog tau kev khiav, so thiab txav mus rau. Tab sis lub thib ob cov ntaub ntawv yog nthuav ntau vim hais tias ntawm laziness yog koj liam koj tus kheej. Xav txog qhov teeb meem no nyob rau hauv ntau yam.
Feem ntau txog yuav ua li cas los yeej tub nkeeg, cov neeg xav hais tias tom qab loj raug mob - kev xeem, uas twb nres, ib tug kev sib raug zoo uas poob sib nrug vim lub passivity ntawm ib qho ntawm cov neeg koom tes, tsis tau profits nyob rau hauv lub lag luam. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug neeg txiav txim siab nco ntsoov hais tias koj xav tau kov yeej kev tub nkeeg kom tau ntau tshaj.
Koj yuav tsum pib muaj kev sib ntaus nrog ib tug tsom xam ntawm seb puas los yog tsis koj xav tau hom phiaj koj tau hais xwb. Cov ntsiab teeb meem nrog txug stems los ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias "tub nkeeg" tus neeg txij li thaum yau yuam "zoo nkauj lub hom phiaj", thiab nws cia li nyob rau hauv "ib tug me ntsis zoo li." Tej zaum koj yuav tau muaj kev zoo siab tsis yog ib tug prestigious txoj hauj lwm nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm thiab kev tshawb fawb microparticles? Tus txiv neej tsis yog ib tug millionaire, tab sis ib tug yooj yim xib fwb uas yog nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog cov ntaub ntawv? Tsis yog ib tug tshiab lub tsheb, thiab ib tug thib peb tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub tsev?
Yeej muaj tseeb qhov tseem ceeb yog feem ntau dim peb. Xav hais tias, yog tias koj yeej rho npe, koj yuav ua li. Cias siv nyiaj tho txawv. Siv txoj cai teem hom phiaj rau ob peb teev. Nws yog zoo dua mus rho los ntawm zej zog, coj koj nyiam cov suab paj nruag thiab mus mus xav seb xwm. Tsis txhob xav hais tias yuav qhia rau lwm leej lwm tus txog koj lub hom phiaj. Lwm yam tib neeg lub hom phiaj tsis muab lub zog rau lawv koj yuav tau ibtxhi mus rau ib tug lub neej-ntev title ntawm ib tug bummer, yog tsis tsim txiaj.
Yog hais tias koj lub hom phiaj thiab kov yeej tub nkeeg tsis ua hauj lwm, sim rau kev tsom xam tias dab tsi yog siv ceev xwmphem koj. ua lag ua luam yog feem ntau ib tug tsis muaj ntaub ntawv. Koj tsis xav ua thaum random, thiab tsis muaj kev siv dag zog yuam los yog siv ib tug hlub - uas tsis muaj dab tsi tau noj lawm. Yog li ntawd, peb yuav tsum tau saib kom zoo ntxiv. Thaum koj muaj ib tug piav qhia ntawm qhov kev paub ntawm lwm tus neeg, koj tsis tas yuav siv sij hawm nyob rau hauv lub invention ib lub tsheb kauj vab thiab koj yuav pib mus tiag tiag nthuav thiab motivating ua hauj lwm.
Tub nkeeg yog ib tug disguised daim ntawv ntawm tag kev cia siab. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, ib tug neeg xav hais tias nws lub sij hawm twb dhau, nws yuav tsis yeej cov kev sib tw, tsis txhob muab qhov chaw uas nws suav vim hais tias nws twb tsis muaj powers. Yog hais tias nws yog - koj cov ntaub ntawv, Kuv pom zoo kom nyeem cov phau ntawv los ntawm Jeff Colvin "Lub txuj ci ntawm dab tsi." Nws txhawb mus ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv nws tseeb cov ntaub ntawv uas qhia tau hais tias tsis tseem ceeb muaj peev xwm - nws polumif. Ib tug tiag tiag zoo heev cov neeg ua tau zoo nyob rau hauv cov nuj nqis ntawm ib tug tshwj xeeb daim ntawv ntawm kev ua hauj lwm, uas tus sau hu ua "txhob txwm xyaum."
Yog hais tias koj yog kam hloov dab tsi nyob rau hauv nws lub neej, npaj mus nug cov lus nug thiab nrhiav cov lus teb - nws txhais tau tias koj cov ntaub ntawv yog tsis yooj yim, thiab thaum lub sij hawm koj yuav ua ib tug cai rau lwm tus neeg qhov teeb meem ntawm "Yuav ua li cas los yeej tub nkeeg?".
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