Nyuaj cov me nyuam yog vim li cas lawv ua li no, thiab yuav ua li cas kom zoo zoo muab kev kawm rau?

Heev feem ntau cov tub ntxhais leej niam tsis txaus siab uas yuav nrhiav tsis tau ib qho lus nrog tus me nyuam. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tag nrho cov piv nrog rau twb zus kas qhuav yug los yam khoom noj thiab envy cov niam uas tsis paub lub kev txhawj xeeb thiab teeb meem peacefully raising lawv cov me nyuam. Txawm li cas los, xws li ib tug kev sib piv yog ruam, vim hais tias mus rau ib tug tej yam uas muaj hnub nyoog thiab qhia tias yog lawv tsis tau, yog li ntawd koj yuav tsum tau kawm kom paub qhov txawv cov zoo tib yam kev ua si ntawm tus me nyuam los ntawm kev tsim ib tug "teeb meem." Nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo mus rau lub dwb me nyuam ntau zaus siv cov kev qhia "nyuaj cov me nyuam". Lawv kiag li tsis mloog lawv niam lawv txiv, yuav tsum tau ib yam nkaus thiab ywj siab, teeb meem, tawv ncauj, tab sis tsis txhob hnov qab hais tias nws yog cov me nyuam. Nrog cov kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam ua nyuaj txawm lub feem ntau zoo tib yam, nyob ntsiag to, kheev thiab hlub cov me nyuam.

Teeb meem ntawm no xwm tshwm sim feem ntau nyob rau hauv cov niam txiv uas tseem kawm tsa lawv thawj tus me nyuam. Lub slightest yuam kev, thiab tus me nyuam twb pib coj phem heev. Thiab nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no peb yuav hais tias nws yog feem ntau mus blame rau cov niam txiv, tsis yog tus me nyuam. Nco ntsoov tias nws yog peb kev sib raug zoo nrog cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm ua rau ob leeg zoo thiab tsis zoo. Nws yog tej yam ntuj tso tau hais tias pipsqueak uas lossi hnov tsuas yog tus quaj ntawm nws niam, yuav ntxov los sis tom qab ntawd, yog tsis muaj ab tsi mus rau nws. Raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm lub cev tus me nyuam hlob npau taws rau txhua leej txhua tus tub hluas uas nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej yuav tsum yog raws li ib txoj kev mus kawm ntawv lawv cov me nyuam. Yog li ntawd, yooj yim cov me nyuam - yog tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm kev upbringing ntawm cov niam txiv.

Raising nws lub suab mus rau nws tus me nyuam, leej niam feem ntau nrhiav pov thawj lawv tus cwj pwm los ntawm lub fact tias nws yog ntshai los qhia cov me nyuam rau tej cwj pwm. Nyob rau hauv ib tes, ntshai tiag tiag yog nkag siab, vim hais tias yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis hnov "tsis muaj", thiab tau tej kev txog kev, nws yuav coj kiag li nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev thiab sai sai heev tau siv rau qhov no. Txawm li cas los, qhov teeb meem no yog ob, thiab ib tug yuav tsum tau kawm kom pom cov kab, thaum nws yog tau tsa lub suab ntawm ib tug me nyuam, thiab thaum twg nws yog zoo dua rau cia ua nws xav li.

Wb xav txog tej yam uas koj tus me nyuam tsis txhob mloog thiab ua li cas nws lub siab xav tau. Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, koj yuav tsum to taub hais tias txoj kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam tsis yooj yim - ib tug laborious txheej txheem, thiab ntev txaus, li ntawd, ua siab ntev. Uas txaus yog tsim nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no, piav qhia txog nram qab no.

1. Txwv tsis pub nws tsis txhua yam. Zoo li flick thiab lawm bans tsuas enrage tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob muab nws txoj kev ywj pheej. Cia kom nws sim ua kos rau ntawm phab ntsa - nws yuav tsum tau ib qho yooj yim los lwv, tab sis nws pom hais tias nws yog tau tso cai rau. Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, cia li xav mus piav rau ib tug me nyuam uas koj muaj peev xwm kos rau ntawm daim ntawv thiab cov phab ntsa yuav tsum yog huv si. Rov no ob peb zaug tsis muaj kev qw, koj yuav saib tau nyob rau hauv ib ob peb lub lis piam.
2. Tsis txhob cem nws nws nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov. Nws yog ib yam nkaus thiab muaj zog ntxim rau koj tus me nyuam, thiab tsim ib tug xov tooj ntawm ceg. Yog hais tias cov me nyuam yaus tau ua ib yam dab tsi tawm ntawm qhov dog dig, nws yog zoo dua los qhia nws maj mam muab hais tias koj tsis tau ua uas, dua li yuav tawg lawm ib tug npau taws tirade nyob rau ib nrab teev.
3. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis ntaus tus me nyuam. Qhov no mus kom ze yog kev cib nyeej.
4. Tsis txhob tiv thaiv nws los ntawm txhua yam. Heev feem ntau, cov niam nws mus tiv thaiv nws tus me nyuam los ntawm tej yam teeb meem. Nws yog ntshaw kom ua li cas thaum tus menyuam tseem me me heev, tab sis lub zus-tus me nyuam yuav tau ua kom ib co dev paus thiab yuam kev. Qhov no yog mus nce kev, uas yog kom tuaj nyob rau hauv muab rau nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej rau nws. Muab tus me nyuam ib tug ncauj lus kom ntxaws briefing rau txhua qhov kev txiav txim, koj yuav loj hlob ib tug neeg uas tsis muaj peev xwm los mus ua kom ywj siab kev txiav txim siab.

Nyuaj cov me nyuam heev sai sai rov kawm ntawv, yog tias ua kom raug. Cia koj tus me nyuam xav tias koj txhawj xeeb (tab sis tsis ntev), thiab ces tag nrho yuav tsum zoo thiab seamlessly.