Los ntawm thaum yau, txhua tus me nyuam yog qhia hais tias nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav ua tau ib yam dab tsi, koj yuav tsum xub xav. Qhov no yog to taub: txoj cai lub hom phiaj-chaw - nws yog ib nrab ntawm cov ua hauj lwm ua; nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau paub hais tias lawv xav tau kev pab thiab lawv commensurate nrog lawv lub peev xwm, los mus nrhiav pom ib theem zuj zus ntawm kev ua mus cuag tej yam tshwm sim. West rau ua lag ua luam, imbued nrog tus ntsuj plig ntawm entrepreneurship, cov me nyuam tom tsev kawm ntawv raug cob qhia kom prioritize thiab ua tau nyiaj txiag zoo. Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas, nyob rau hauv peb, Lavxias teb sab, haiv neeg thiaj li siab phem rau no qauv ntawm tus cwj pwm, ntseeg hais tias ib tug ambitious txiv neej - ib tug txawv los ntawm cov cai, feem ntau pathetic kev climber, ib tug intriguer thiab yas dhos ntawm lwm yam unflattering epithets? Nyob rau hauv no tsab xov xwm peb sim kom to taub zoo li cas xyov yog ambitious, nws yog ib qhov zoo tsis zoo los yog phem, thiab seb cov kev zoo siab ntawm kev kawm tau ntawm tag nrho cov imaginable heights.
Ambition - yog ib tug zoo zoo li ntawd ambition, nws yog ib qhov muaj siab rau ib yam dab tsi ntau tshaj li nws yog nyob rau lub caij, lub qhov dag zog ntawm lub app (ob puas siab puas ntsws thiab lub cev) mus cuag lawv cov hom phiaj. Nquag - nws txhais tau hais mob siab rau kawm tau ntawv zoo, sociable neeg, yuav tsis tsum lawv tus kheej rau defeat. Los ntawm ib qho nyiaj txiag taw tes ntawm view, xws li tus neeg tsuas irreplaceable rau kev sib koom tes, lawv siab nyiam tas li thawb lawv, yuam kom ua thiab ncav tau lawv cov hom phiaj. Nws yuav zoo li uas ib co zoo sib nrauj. Ntawm tus taw tes ntawm view ntawm lub neej, ib tug ambitious txiv neej - yog lub txiaj ntsim ntawm kev vam meej socialization, thaum ib tug neeg tau npaum li cas cov kev cai thiab cov kev tswj prevailing nyob rau hauv lub zej zog, thiab pib mus ua si nyob rau hauv lawv. Xwb, tsis muaj ib tug yuav hais txog qhov muaj kev vam meej tus neeg, "nws asocial" los yog "nws tsis yog ib tug kev cai lij choj-nom tswv teev tseg." On qhov tsis tooj, vam meej yog inseparably txuas nrog kev ua raws li raug cai coj xam qhovkev nyob rau hauv ib tug hauv chav kawm ntawv. Raws li peb tau pom, nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm pej xeem lub tswv yim, ib tug ambitious neeg - yog ib tug neeg tsim nyog ntawm kev hwm thiab emulation.
Txawm li cas los, zoo li txhua txhua phenomenon nyob rau hauv ambition muaj yog ib tug downside. Yuav ua li cas yog nws? Yog li ntawd, thaum xub thawj, feem ntau cov hom phiaj tiav yog tsis nkaus ncaj ncees txhais tau tias. "Mus nyob lub taub hau" - yog li feem ntau yus unprincipled careerists presumptuous, uas rau lub hom phiaj ntawm lawv qia dub caijnyoog tsis nco qab txog tag nrho cov morality thiab lub hav zoov ntawm lwm tus neeg. Callousness, kev phem heev, cov neeg siab phem thiab subservience - tag nrho cov tsis zoo qualities yog kawm tau nyob rau hauv tus caum qab ntawm cov ntaub ntawv uas wealth.
Yuav ua li cas yog daim ntawv qhia rau lub zoo meej ua ke nrog ntawm ib tug noj qab nyob zoo ambition thiab siab ncaj ncees paus ntsiab lus? Qhov no tshuav nyiaj li cas txiv neej yuav tsum pom nws tus kheej, thiab tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm lub series "Tag nrho cov tib neeg psychology," tsis tawm tswv yim thiab cov kev taw qhia yuav pab tsis tau cov phooj ywg. Qhov loj tshaj plaws - nco ntsoov tias lub siab tshaj plaws nqi nyob rau hauv lub neej - lub neej nws tus kheej thiab cov neeg nyob ze ua ke, thiab cov khoom thiab cov hauj lwm Cheebtsam yog ib theem txoj hauj lwm. Yog hais tias koj swap lawv, nws yog tsis zoo li hais tias qhov no yuav tig tawm ib yam dab tsi zoo. Prestige thiab paub yuav tsis raug cawm dim los ntawm kev kho siab thiab ntxhov siab, thiab cov ntaub ntawv uas cov khoom yuav tsis muaj peev xwm sau lub sab ntsuj plig tsis muaj dabtsis. Yog li ntawd, los ntawm lub saum toj no peb yuav xaus uas ib tug xav tau rau txiv neej - qhov no yog tsis tas ib tug tsis zoo tus cwj pwm, raws li ntev raws li nws neeg pab leg ntaubntawv thiab cov kev ua tsis infringe raws li qhov kev txaus siab ntawm cov neeg uas nyob ze.