Tsim ntawm cov ua cim - nws yog kev lom zem!

Cov tub hluas ntxhais hluas rau ib co yog vim li cas nws yog assumed tias ib tug neeg lub cim - yog ib yam ntawm cov khov, tsim nyob rau hauv thaum ntxov thaum yau substance.

"Qhov no yeej yog kuv cim!" - sadly, ntau hais tias, sau ntawv tawm lawv cov drawbacks rau qhov raug iab liam kev upbringing nyob rau hauv thaum yau. Lawv tsis nco qab hais tias cov tsim ntawm cov ua cim tshwm sim thoob plaws lub neej, thiab cov ua cim tsis yog nyob ntawm seb yog haiv neeg twg los yog nyob rau hauv lub anatomical los yog physiological nta.

Nws tus kheej warehouse influencing cov kev ua, kev coj cwj pwm, outlook, ntau tsis txaus siab. Tab sis ob peb uas tseem tabtom hloov cov nta kom cov ua cim tsim ntawm lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm lub neej. Thiab tshwj tsis yog ib tug neeg muaj peev xwm muaj kev zoo siab thiab harmonious, yog hais tias nws yog lossi tsis txaus siab nrog nws tus kheej? Puas muaj leej twg muaj peev xwm mus cuag tau zoo, ib tug ua hauj lwm, los yog los ua ib tug neeg zoo siab yog hais tias lawv tub nkeeg, passivity los yog, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, ua lwj ua liam thiab intolerance, nws yuav tsum tau blamed rau "ib tug cim"?

Ua hauj lwm rau ib tug ua tau thiab tsim nyog, thiab tsim tus cwj pwm tsis yog tsuas yog tsis yooj yim, tab sis kuj heev nthuav kom ua li cas.

Piv txwv ib tug neeg tsis nyiam indecision los yog lub greed xam qhovkev nyob rau hauv nws xwm los. Yuav kom xyuam xim tau tshem ntawm cov (los yog lwm yam) nta mus ua cim txoj kev loj hlob ib tug zoo, koj yuav tsum xub tsom xam dab tsi muab qhov no zoo. Koj yog tos vim hais tias koj ntshai tsam ua qhov chaw ntawm cov xim? Puas yog koj ntshai los ua ib tug thawj coj? Tab sis nws yog heev feem ntau tsis pub cov kev kawm tau ntawm cov hom phiaj. Ua nyob rau hauv ib tug xis plhaub, tsis daring mus qhia lawv cov kev xav los yog coj ib tug neeg sab nraud txiav txim siab, koj muaj peev xwm nyob twj ywm tag nrho lub neej nyob rau hauv lub margins ntawm txoj hmoo. Sim nws ib zaug kov yeej indecision, thiab koj yuav pom tam sim ntawd yuav ua li cas los txhim kho qhov zoo ntawm lub neej. Yog li koj yuav tsis tsuas tau tshem ntawm txhua txhua pliaj sijhawm, tab sis, kuj ua rau cov tsim ntawm lub cim fascinating txheej txheem.

Txawm li cas los, cia li rau rog xav txog thiab ua hauj lwm rau cov me flaws.

Nyob rau hauv lub thib ob theem yuav tsum ascertain seb qhov zoo yog yeej hais tias koj ascribe, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb koj yog xam qhovkev. Tej zaum nws yog ib tug rog xav txog ntawm sab nraum lub tswv yim. Xwb, nws feem ntau tshwm sim hais tias txawm tias ib tug hluas nkauj, xav zoo dua kev vam meej, feem ntau sim mus underestimate lwm tus neeg lub self-esteem, negate lub meej mom ntawm lwm tus neeg. Los nrog nkawd tham? Tsim ntawm cov ua cim mus.

Ua li no, siv sij hawm ib tug ntawv ntawm daim ntawv thiab sau ntawv cia ib tug luv luv categorically nws cov nta uas koj xav yuav. Nws yog qhov yooj yim. "Kuv xav kom muaj kas. Kuv twb ua (a) kas (oops). Hais tias cov tshuaj nyob rau hauv ob cov ntaub ntawv, kom cov efficiency ntawm lub chaw ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv ib tug kev lom zem ntau.

Nyob rau hauv dav dav, lub tsim ntawm cov ua cim psychology, los yog es cov neeg sawv cev ntawm no science yog ib tug yuavtsum tau kawm uantej ntawm lub neej ntawm txhua txhua tus neeg laus. Tom qab tag nrho, twb 12 xyoo cov hluas yeej muaj los tsomxam txog lawv tus cwj pwm thiab kos cov lus xaus txog cov yog vim li cas rau lawv kev kawm tau zoo los yog tsis ua hauj lwm. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg uas tsis nrhiav kev los hloov lawv tus kheej kom zoo, mus ib txhis daig nyob rau hauv thaum tiav hluas, yog neeg sab nraud.

Thaum cov kev kawm hloov nyob rau hauv lub cim xeeb thiab kaw, cov theem tom ntej ntawm lub lag luam tshaj lwm.

Xav txog tej yam lub hero, uas xav mus zoo li. Siv nws nrog cov kev puas hlwb kev sib tham, nug kom lawv qhia lawv kev, lawv tus cwj pwm qhov zoo. Kuv, rau ib tug, yog heev impressive Forrest Gump. Tsis paub (vim hais tias ntawm kev puas hlwb muaj peev xwm) uas tau kev vam meej nyuaj heev, nws cia li ua li cas nws xav tias yog tsim nyog. Yog tsis muaj hesitation los yog tsis ntseeg. Thiab nws tau tiav ntau npaum li cas tshaj nws compatriots hlwb tsim.

Qhov kawg theem ntawm kev ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv tuag yuav tsis yooj yim, nws yuav tag sim neej. Tom qab tag nrho, lub cim - yog tib yam cwj pwm tsis zoo. Thiab tau tshem ntawm phem cwj pwm tsis zoo, nws yog tsim nyog los nrog lawv. Peb yuav siv los khaws cov feem ntau qab daim ntawm koj tus kheej? Muab nws rau ib tug neeg. Hlub position lawv tus kheej raws li lub feem ntau ntse nyob rau hauv lub chaw ua hauj lwm? Laj mej pej xeem qhuas rau nws colleague peev. Ntshai qhia ib lub tswv yim? Xav ozvuchte thiab constructive daws mus rau qhov teeb meem. Cia nws yuav tsis tau zoo heev. Tab sis koj yuav tsis tau nyob rau hauv txoj hauj lwm ntawm ib tug cowardly nas, koj yuav tsum tau suav hais tias. Puas yog koj ntshai mus ntsib? Luag ntxhi ntawm ib tug neeg txawv, sim tham nrog nws.

Taug, thiab tom qab ib tug ob peb lub lis piam koj lub neej yuav muaj zog thiab ntau filling.