Yuav ua li cas yog kev hlub?

Yog muaj lus nug, uas yuav tsum tau ntaus nqi mus rau hauv qeb ntawm lub nyob mus ib txhis. Tib neeg yog tab tom nrhiav rau cov lus teb rau lawv los ntawm lub sij hawm immemorial, los tsim kom tau ntau yam txoj kev fwv yees, kwvyees muab rau pem hauv ntej, nws tau muaj, tab sis qhov tseeb tseem hais tias ib tug ntshiab lus teb mus rau lawv yog tsis thiab tsis tau. Nws yog rau cov teeb meem muaj xws li "Yuav ua li cas yog kev hlub?". Muaj ntau versions nyob rau hauv no hais txog. Science hais tias nws yog ib tug sib sib zog nqus intimate lawm tej los ntawm ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo mus rau lwm tus neeg, lub tswv yim los yog yam khoom uas muaj ib co tseem ceeb. Rau txhua tus ntawm peb txoj kev hlub yog sib txawv: rau ib tug neeg - qhov no tu siab thiab kev phem heev, rau ib tug neeg - ib tug muaj kev xyiv fab thiab zoo siab, thiab rau ib tug neeg - ib tug tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum, yam uas yog yog tsis yooj yim sua nyob ua ib ke.

Nws yog ntseeg hais tias cov me nyuam - heev ci thiab selfless beings yog ntau tshaj li peb txhua tus xav tias yog dab tsi kev hlub yog. Ntawm no yog ib co nqe lus me nyuam uas teb lo lus nug no: "Los ntawm kev hlub rau koj luag ntxhi, Txawm tias thaum nkees heev," "Hlub - yog thaum kuv tus menyuam dev licks kuv thiab wags nws tus ko tw, txawm hais tias kuv muaj ib tug sab laug nyob rau hauv tsev txhua hnub," " Yog hais tias koj hlub ib tug neeg, koj feem ntau tham txog nws, cov neeg no yog tsis nco qab lawm los ntawm no "," Feem ntau ntawm tag nrho cov kuv yuav tsum tau hlub kuv niam - nws yeej ib txwm kisses kuv ua ntej yuav mus pw. " Tag nrho cov me nyuam yuav teb tau cov nqe lus nug ntawm yog dab tsi kev hlub yog, tab sis lawv tsis txawm hais tias nws tsis yog li ntawd ib qho yooj yim mus nrhiav tau nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej. Qhov no tsis yog hais txog kev hlub rau cov motherland thiab txoj kev hlub rau niam thiab txiv. Txoj kev hlub no tshwm sim heev thaum ntxov, yuav luag ntawm cov menyuam txaj peb nqus nyob rau hauv tag nrho nws cov ces. Tsev Neeg - qhov no yog qhov chaw uas peb ua ntej muaj kev hlub rau. Tsis muaj zem nws yog suav tias yog hais tias cov neeg ib txwm muaj ib tug qauv ntawm kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv nws tsev neeg rau tus so ntawm lub neej thiab txoj kev sib yuav yuav coj raws li zoo raws li lawv niam lawv txiv.

Peb tag nrho cov loj hlob thiab xav mus xav tias kev hlub uas yuav ua tau kom ntev thiab romantic kev sib raug zoo. Qhov teeb meem yog hais tias tej zaum cov neeg no heev idealize no lawm thiab ces tag nrho cov lub neej ua ib tug futile nrhiav rau lub thib ob ib nrab. Tom qab tag nrho, lub Scope ntawm cov tsis totaub - ib tsam ntawm meej Relativity ntawm txhua yam. Yuav tsis muaj sib npaug zos rau cov heroes ntawm phau ntawv los yog TV films, koj hlub yog tshwj xeeb thiab koj yuav ua nws nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej txoj kev, tsis zoo li txhua leej txhua tus lwm tus. Nws yog tsis tsim nyog nyob rau hauv lub chav kawm ntawm lub neej nrog dab ib tug ntshiab lus teb rau lo lus nug ntawm yog dab tsi kev hlub yog. Muaj ib hnub, muaj tau ntsib lwm tus txiv neej thiab dhau ib txoj kev, koj thaum kawg to taub nws - ib tug dab lawm, zoo nkaus li, mus ob peb vas thiab lub dag lub zog, thiab kev hlub.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub qhov txawv nws los ntawm kev hlub. Ib txhia neeg tsis pom qhov zoo kab uas tau tshwm sim nruab nrab ntawm cov ob lub tswv yim. Tej zaum qhov no yog vim lub fact tias kev hlub yog feem ntau yuam kev rau kev hlub, thiab muaj ib tug unpleasant tshaj plaws li kev sib nrauj nyob rau hauv peb lub neej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog hais tias kev hlub feem ntau los maj mam thiab maj. Thiab kev hlub - lub phenomenon ntawm ceev ceev, ceev ceev, nws zoo nkaus li los ntawm tsis pom qhov twg thiab xim tsev lub neej nyob rau hauv vibrant xim. Tab sis qhov teeb meem yog hais tias nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom paub ib tug neeg rau ib tug ob peb feeb. Yuav kom qhia nws yeej muaj tseeb xwm tiag tiag xwb lub sij hawm. Yog li ntawd peb yuav tsis tham txog kev hlub thaum xub thawj pom, raws li ib tug tiag tiag tshwm sim. Koj muaj peev xwm xav tias tus pab koj tu siab rau tus txiv neej, xav tias hlub rau nws, los yog nyob rau hauv, tab sis instantly poob rau hauv kev hlub - yeej tsis.

Muaj kuj sib txawv nyob rau hauv yuav ua li cas dhau kev hlub thiab kev hlub. Tus thawj mus tej zaum qeeb, mob heev thiab yoojyim ib tug sib sib zog nqus cim rau tus ntsuj plig. Qhov thib ob disappears kom sai raws li nws tau tshwm sim. Nws yoojyim qab tsuas fleeting puas. Ntxiv mus, kev hlub yog feem ntau ib txwm muaj los tsuas yog ib tug neeg. Ib tug poj niam nyob rau hauv kev hlub yuav tej zaum yuav nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog ob peb cov txiv neej rau lawv txawv qualities. Hlub yog ib txwm sib raug zoo nrog cov kev tsis taus txaus siab rau qhov zoo ntawm tej yam muaj kev sib raug zoo, nurtures hwm thiab qhia ib txoj kev txaus siab thiab muaj siab mus pab. Thiab kev hlub - ua ib siab nto, nws yeej tsis mus sib sib zog nqus rau hauv tus ntsuj plig ntawm ib tug uas yog nyob.

Raws li koj tau pom, yog dab tsi kev hlub yog, txhua leej txhua tus to taub nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej txoj kev. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj nyob rau lub sij hawm ntawd thaum nws tawm los, muaj dab tsi nws tsis yog yam thiab tsis txhob poob ntawm ignorance.