Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom? Lub tswv yim rau cov niam txiv

Nyob rau hauv lub neej ntawm yuav luag txhua txhua leej niam leej txiv muaj ib tug teeb meem no, thaum nws tus me nyuam twb tom ib tug neeg. Niam, txiv, lwm tus me nyuam, niam tais los yog kuv miv. Leej twg tau txais ib tug kub tes, los yog es ib tug hniav, nws yog tsis kaj siab thiab mob heev. Qhov no txhais tau tias li coj tus cwj pwm tsis yog lawm, thiab peb yuav tsum sib ntaus nws. Tab sis yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom, thiaj li tsis mus khiav mus rau hauv ib yam dab tsi txawm ntau unpleasant?

Ua ntej teb lo lus nug no, peb yuav tsum to taub yog vim li cas yog vim li cas nws ua li ntawd no, vim hais tias lawv tau yeej ib txwm tau.

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawm 5 rau 7 lub hlis tus me nyuam tom tsuas vim hais tias nyob rau hauv no txoj kev nws yog ua los tejzaum tus mob txuam nrog teething. Txoj kev ntawm kev soj ntsuam txog nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, lub feem ntau pom tseeb: koj yuav tsum muab ib me ntsis "Snapper" roj hmab cov khoom ua si, teethers, uas yog tshwj xeeb uas ua rau lub hom phiaj no.

Yuav ua li cas yog tias ib tug me nyuam tom lub hnub nyoog ntawm 8 mus rau 14 lub hlis? Thaum lub sij hawm no lub sij hawm, qhov no yuav tshwm sim, yog hais tias tus me nyuam yog nkees los yog perevozbudilsya kuj ua "xeem nyob rau hauv tus hniav" Cov niam txiv yuav ua tau ib tug tsis xis nyob los yog voos. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, cov niam txiv muab ib tug piv txwv zoo rau koj tus me nyuam, tom nws tus ntiv tes raws li ib qho kev qhia ntawm kev hlub thiab kev hlub. Thiab yog hais tias ces yog txiv los yog niam, ces, ntawm chav kawm, nyob rau hauv no txoj kev yog yuam ua hauj lwm ua lawv cov tub los yog tus ntxhais. Lwm nam peb yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab: nyob rau hauv no muaj hnub nyoog, koj tus me nyuam nquag paub lub ntiaj teb no los ntawm tactile thiab saj ncus. Nws cia li mas yuav tau paub dab tsi koj saj. Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nyob rau ntawm no muaj hnub nyoog? Ua piv txwv tias koj muaj txaus ntshai mob, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sib zog heev nws, tab sis tsim nyog grotesque tsis raug mob. Koj tus me nyuam yuav muaj peev xwm to taub, hais tias ua mob rau koj, thiab yuav sim mus ntxiv tsis txhob ua.

Thaum lub sij hawm ib tug ib nrab mus rau 3 xyoo tus me nyuam tom nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej tiv thaiv los yog nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav ua kom lawv tus kheej, albeit tsis zoo. Koj tus me nyuam, txawm nws loj me me, yuav muaj zoo siab: helplessness, ntshai, voos, npau taws. Tab sis nws hais lus lub sij hawm tseem tsis tau txaus tsim los qhia lawv txoj kev xav nyob rau hauv cov lus, ces nws yuav tom ib tug neeg, muab lub qhov quav rau nws kev txhawj xeeb. Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no? Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis siv kev quab yuam, vim hais tias tsis zoo li nws, yog koj tham txog rau ib ntev lub sij hawm thiab ib tug ntau ntawm, ces siv qhov no rau koj ua tsov rog. Piav tias mob tom tus neeg uas ua tau li ntawd phem. Sim siv sij hawm ntxiv nrog koj tus me nyuam, kom nws muaj kev nyab xeeb. Qhia nws qhia nws nws txoj kev xav nyob rau hauv lus los yog lwm yam kev ua tsis nqa mob rau lwm tus neeg (tuav lub tog hauv ncoo, zuaj heev los yog kua muag daim ntawv).

Tom qab 3 lub xyoo tus me nyuam tom nyob rau hauv lub vaj los yog nyob rau hauv lub vaj, los mus tiv thaiv tiv thaiv cov kev tawm tsam ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg, lawv ridicule thiab aggression nyob rau hauv lawv cov haum. Tsis tas li ntawd, yog vim li cas rau xws li ib tug tshuaj tiv thaiv nyob rau hauv lub tsis zoo yuav tsum tau them nyob rau hauv ib tug stressful teeb meem no nyob rau hauv tsev: nquag quarrels los yog sib nrauj ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv, lawv tuaj mus rau lub tsev ntawm lwm tus txiv neej es tsis txhob ntawm lub pope, tsaus muag niam cov xim vim hais tias ntawm cov tsos ntawm ib tug me ntsis tij laug los yog tus muam. Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom rau hauv xws li ib tug yooj yim teeb meem no? Ua ntej koj yuav cem lawv tus me nyuam rau lub "poob ntsej muag tus cwj pwm", saib ib ncig thiab xav hais tias, tsis seb puas yuav hloov tau lawv lub cwj pwm ntawm cov me nyuam lub sij hawm, los tsim ib tug ntau xis ib puag ncig rau nws nyob rau hauv lub tsev.

Qhov no tsis tau txhais hais tias peb yuav tsum nyob twj ywm ntsiag to, on qhov tsis tooj, cov tshuaj tiv thaiv rau hauv koj qhov yuav tsum tau ua raws li hais tias cov me nyuam to taub meej meej hais tias nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom ua li ntawd nyob rau hauv txhua yam. Yog li ntawd nco ntsoov nruj me ntsis tham nrog nws yog hais tias koj pom zoo, tsim txom (tawm tsis tas luav yav tsaus ntuj, piv txwv li), tab sis nco ntsoov hais tias cov teeb meem ntawm cov me nyuam yog yuav luag ib txwm mus blame cov neeg laus. Thiab kos kev xaus lus.