Yuav ua li cas kom txhob ua ntshai? Sib ntaus sib tua yuav tsum tau zam

Peb yog tag nrho cov ntshai ib yam dab tsi, peb yog tag nrho cov los ntawm qhov muab tej txiaj ntsim nrog ntshai heev. Nyob rau hauv ib co lawv manifested openly, thaum lwm tus neeg tsis txawm paub hais tias lawv yog cov ntshai ib yam dab tsi.

Wb tham txog qhov no ntshai yog tus ntshai ntawm kev sib ntaus. Yuav ua li cas kom txhob ua ntshai sib ntaus? Yuav ua li cas kom coj nyob rau hauv ib tug teeb meem qhov teeb meem no, uas muaj peev xwm tsim mus rau hauv lub feem ntau banal sib ntaus? Yuav ua li cas kom txhob ua ntshai?

Ib tug ntau ntawm cov neeg uas xav txog yuav ua li cas kom tshem tau ntawm kev ntshai ntawm cov kev sib ntaus. Qhov no insecure neeg, uas yog feem ntau hais nyob rau hauv kindergarten los yog lub tsev kawm ntawv, uas tsis tau lawv cov lus, lawv kev xav thiab lawv cov luj nyob rau hauv lub neej.

Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, lub sib ntaus yog tsis manly thiab romantic, raws li peb zaum saib hauv TV. Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, nws tseem zoo nkauj pathetic, Ntxiv, ib tug criminal. Cov sages ntawm tag nrho cov sij hawm hais tias ib tug txiv neej wise tsis tau mus rau hauv ib tug sib ntaus thiab nrhiav tau ib txoj kev kom tsis txhob muaj nws. Tab sis txhob ua ntshai ntawm ib tug sib ntaus yog tias koj tsis xav tias nws tus kheej-kev tso siab? Peb yuav sim kom to taub.

Muaj ob peb lub tswv yim los pab cov neeg uas xav to taub yuav ua li cas kom txhob ua ntshai ntawm ib tug sib ntaus. Ua ntej, tsa lawv tus kheej. Mus rau lub gym, xyaum lawv cov tsos, mus saib txoj kev zoo nkauj salon. Tom qab ib co sij hawm, koj tus tshiab saib yuav surprise koj. Uas yuav tsum zoo siab tshaj plaws? Saib nws tus kheej-ntseeg tus neeg. Tsis yog txhua tus yuav twv thab mus rau hauv tej teeb meem nrog ib tug txiv neej uas zoo li muaj kev vam meej.

Ob, kawm luag ntxhi glyalya nyob rau hauv lub ntsej muag ntawm nws tus nrog sib ntaus. Tsis txhob smirk, namely luag ntxhi. Ib txhia ntawm nws tiag puzzling, vim hais tias lawv xav tias yuav pom cov ntshai nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm koj tus nrog sib ntaus. Ntseeg ntsia thiab ib qho qhib luag rau ntawm lub ntsej muag ntawm cov pov thawj, firstly, ntawm reconciliation, ntawm lub tswv yim kom daws tau qhov teeb meem, luv luv ntawm manhandling. Secondly, ceeb toom tias nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm tsis ua hauj lwm ntawm reconciliation, koj yuav nrhiav tau ib yam dab tsi rau counter tus yeeb ncuab.

Peb, ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej. Lossi nco ntsoov koj tus kheej tias koj tseem tsis tau paub tseeb tias koj tsis ntshai ntawm tus txiv neej uas yog nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm koj. Ntseeg hais tias cov kev tswj ntawm qhov teeb meem no thiab muaj peev xwm los daws cov teeb meem peacefully. Ntseeg nyob rau hauv dab tsi koj smarter. Txawm tias, yog hais tias tsuas vim hais tias ntse tus neeg yeej tsis mus rau ib qho qhib sib cav sib ceg.

Tsis txhob qhia hais tias koj yeej ntshai. Nrhiav lub dag lub zog los mus kov yeej no ntshai thiab kom muaj ob sab hauv thiab sab nraud twj ywm. Teb tag nrho cov yeeb ncuab neeg pab leg ntaubntawv kom meej meej thiab nyias muaj. Tib txoj kev koj yuav tau mus hais rau nws hais tias yeej ntseeg.

Cov tswv yim thov xwb, yog hais tias koj hais yog lawm rau qhov teeb meem no, los yog hais tias koj muaj peev xwm ua kom yuam kev los mus hais tau koj tus nrog sib ntaus. Txawm li cas los, yog hais tias tus nrog sib ntaus tsis txhob poobsiab thiab insists rau, sim mus thov txim, tab sis, nrog meej mom. Muaj ntau nws nres.

Yuav ua li cas kom txhob ua ntshai sib ntaus? Lwm txoj kev - mus kav tau cov kev tiv thaiv tus kheej. Nyob rau hauv peb turbulent lub sij hawm yog tsis yooj yim thaum hmo ntuj kom tau raws li nyob rau hauv ib tug dimly zes alleyway lub tuam txhab uas nws tag nrho tsos tshaj tawm: "Peb tsis yog ntshai ntawm ib tug sib ntaus!". Cov hais mav tej zaum yuav las mees tag nrho cov tsim nyog cov lus sib cav, vim hais tias lawv rau siab ntso nrhiav ib lub hom phiaj: "mus kos ruaj ruaj." Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tej zaum nws yuav yuav tsum tau cov kev txawj ntse ntawm martial arts. Cia li tsis heroics, ib tug heev ob peb tus cwj nrag mus nkag rau ib lub tuam txhab nyob rau hauv kev kub ntxhov thiab tawm hauv lub chaw uas zoo heev. Zoo, ntawm chav kawm, los tiv thaiv lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv ua ntej thiab tsis txhob mus poob rau hauv lub yav tsaus ntuj nyob rau hauv qhov tsaus ntuj nti txoj kev.