Yuav ua li cas daws cov xov tooj ntawm cov nplooj ntawv, thiab nrhiav kev hlub ...

Kuv muaj feem ntau hnov los ntawm kuv cov phooj ywg uas muaj kev hlub rau hauv txoj kev tau ua akin phem tus cwj pwm zoo. Lub Internet tau qhib tau xaiv lawv tus khub tau muab tsis. Ib tug neeg xav tias nws yog unromantic, tab sis xyaum qhia tau hais tias cov neeg nrhiav txhua lwm yam nyob rau hauv kev sib tham isthawmnev qhov chaw. Yos chaw no zoo xws li roulette, yog koob hmoov yog nyob rau koj sab - koj yog nyob rau hauv lub "Vaj", tab sis yog tias tsis tau, ces tag nrho cov ua ntej!

Ntawm cov hoob kawm, muaj downsides, feem ntau pom cov tib neeg uas yog "hooked" rau ib tug systematic cov phooj ywg tshiab, tab sis tsis yog lub txhaum tej zaum yuav Internet? Tiamsis, nws yog ib tug cim kev zoo losis phem los yog cov tsos mob ceg.

Muaj ib co coj txawv txawv scored tus uas nkaum qab qhov ncauj qhov ntswg, ua si lub luag hauj lwm ntawm cov neeg uas nyob rau hauv lawv lub tswv yim, tab sis dua, cov no yog cov neeg uas nws muaj tiag tsis hloov. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg plays nrog lwm tus rau ntawm qhov chaw, nws yuav nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag ua si. Kom tsis txhob ntog tsim txom rau dag thiab "coj txawv txawv neeg", tsom xam cov profile thiab cov duab, tsis txhob poob mus rau hauv kev zoo siab. Ib zaug ntxiv, nyob rau hauv Internet cov cai xws li nyob rau hauv lub neej, cov neeg no yog cov tib qhov txhia chaw.

Yog hais tias koj txiav txim siab mus sau npe rau ib tug sib tam site, tsis txhob ntshai hais tias cov ntaub ntawv txog koj yuav pom. Thaum koj sau npe, koj sau rau daim ntawv, qhia kom meej qhov uas koj email account, xov tooj. Yuav ua li cas daws cov xov tooj ntawm cov nplooj ntawv, koj yuav nrhiav tau nyob rau hauv cov kev pab seem rau ntawm qhov chaw. Tag nrho cov chaw sau npe yog heev yooj yooj yim thiab yuav siv sij hawm tsawg lub sij hawm.

Yuav kom muab cov lus nug yuav tsum kom zoo zoo. Cov ntaub ntawv thiab cov duab yog cov txwm los ntawm uas koj yuav ua tau tus thawj lub tswv yim. Nco thawj, es tsis txhob "Kuv yog ib tug bitch," los yog "Kuv lub caij," qiv qhov zoo tshaj plaws tswv yim los ntawm cov piv txwv zoo kawg los cim ib tug paj huam, tab sis es tsis txhob "Kuv tab tom nrhiav rau ib tug ntse, leej twg yuav saib xyuas kuv" sau ntawv hais txog cov ntxaum zoo ntawm yam tus khub. Nyob rau hauv lub loj sib tam qhov chaw muaj phav phav ntawm cov ntaub ntawv, thiab tsis tau poob mus rau hauv ib tug grey loj, yuav tshiab thiab sau ua tsaug.

Thiab tam sim no, koj nyob rau ib lub sib tam site, daws yav dhau los ib tug ntau yam ntawm profiles, cov duab, thiab lwm tus neeg txoj kev xav. Cov thawj qhia yeej ib txwm nkag tau rau hauv ib tug stupor, vim hais tias koj tsis pom tus neeg thiab tsis siv rau "tham" nrog rau lawv cov ntiv tes. Uas teb cov lus rau ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab? Ua tsaug, sau ib tug tseem qhuas txog lub qhov muag-nws yog yeej zoo, tab sis yog dab tsi tom ntej no? Yuav ua li cas rau tsav qhov kev sib tham nyob rau hauv ib tug languid thiab romantic khiav? Ntawm no yog peb xav tau qhov, to taub cov lus uas koj tus nrog sib ntaus tau qhia rau koj phab. Txhua tus neeg xav tau kev pab nws tus kheej mus kom ze. Yog hais tias qhov kev sib tham yog tsis sau tseg qhia, tsis txhob txhawj thiab mus rau lub tom ntej no, qhov zoo contenders rau koj lub plawv ib tug ntau.

Yuav ua li cas pab cov neeg muaj hmoo txaus rau tsis tau li lawv halves ntawm sib tam qhov chaw - npaj, koob hmoov los yog kev rau siab? Es, vim li cas yog nws tus kheej-kev tso siab, ntshiab hom phiaj thiab ib txhij txhua mus kom ze rau cov kev xaiv ntawm cov feem ntau cherished daim ntawv.

Dating yog heev yooj yim mus siv, tsuas yog rau cov tshiab khiv sau npe lawv zoo li to taub tsis tau system. Ob peb hnub ntawm active kev siv - thiab koj nyob nraum zoo li "ntses nyob rau hauv dej".

Ib tug ntawm cov nrhav rau sib tam qhov chaw - txuas chav. Rau ntau yog vim li cas, ntau cov neeg siv yuav ntsib nrog ib tug teeb meem - yuav ua li cas decouple lub xov tooj ntawm cov nplooj ntawv. Feem ntau, cov kev qhia, nyiam, los yog lwm qhov chaw ua hauj lwm. Yog hais tias nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom daws tau qhov teeb meem, nug cov lus nug "Yuav ua li cas decouple lub xov tooj ntawm cov nplooj ntawv?" Nyob rau hauv lub qeb "Tswv yim". Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, cov lus teb yuav tau tos ib tug ob peb hnub (nyob ntawm seb lub chaw ua hauj lwm qhov chaw yug). Koj yuav tau mus rau lub "Cov Lus Nug" thiab muaj mus nrhiav cov lus teb rau lo lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas decouple lub xov tooj ntawm cov nplooj ntawv.