Yog vim li cas cov txiv neej pw - cia saib!

Thiab tiag tiag, vim li cas cov txiv neej pw? Yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau lawv muaj zog pw ua ke, nws yog heev muaj kev vam meej, muaj nyiaj, nrees sawv nyob rau hauv nws ob txhais taw, mam li nco dheev nkaum nws ob lub qhov muag, txaj muag luag, ntsej mua nce ntshav, painfully inventing ib co zoo kawg zaj dabneeg?

Nws nkawd hais tias yog koj tsis coj mus rau hauv tus account lub pathological liars los yog tus neeg mob xws li cov kuaj dav dav, tus thawj vim li cas rau cov lus dag lawv muaj yog tib yam li hais tias ntawm tag nrho cov ntawm peb: lub ntshai yog misunderstood, tsis muaj nuj nqis, unclaimed. Yog hais tias peb tsom xam cov raug teeb meem - yog vim li cas cov txiv neej pw - nws hloov tawm hais tias stereotypes yog lom zem ntau liam. Tus txiv neej muaj ntau heev "shoulds": yuav tsum khwv tau zoo, yuav tsum tau taub hau ntawm tsev neeg, yuav tsum tau ua txhua yam li nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tsev, tsim ib txoj hauj lwm, ib tug khoom qhib ib lub txhab nyiaj account ... Nws yuav tsum tshwj xeeb kev daws teeb meem, tej lus ntuas, decisive ua. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej lees tsis muaj zog, yog hais tias tsis yeej ib txwm tiv nrog nws khi? Tom qab tag nrho, peb tag nrho - cov neeg, thiab tsis muaj dab tsi tib neeg yog alien rau peb, thiab cov txiv neej - xws li! Tab sis dab tsi feem ntau yog hais tias goodbye rau tus poj niam, tus txiv neej liam, yuav luag ib tug ua txhaum. Mob nws, tab sis yuav tsum tsis txhob quaj, tsis txhob muab! Nws yog ib qhov nyuaj, tab sis ua siab ntev, tsis txhob yws! Tsis kawm tau ntawv zoo nyob rau hauv ua tej yam, dreary lub siab - tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau lub hom, ib yam dab tsi phem! Yog vim li cas cov txiv neej dag! Tsis propensity mus pw, tsis yog los ntawm ib tug lub siab xav mus, thiab qhia rau muab tso rau lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv lub feem ntau dej siab lub teeb. Thiab vim hais tias ntawm lawv cov lwm yam - losers, tsis muaj ib tug tus kheej tsis muaj tsev nyob thiab prestigious tsheb, tab sis nrog ib tug yuag hnab nyob rau hauv nws lub hnab tshos, cov poj niam yog feem ntau tsis kam txais. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug txiv neej pib tham txog lawv tej teeb meem, yog hais tias nws hloov tawm hais tias tsis yog nws, tab sis nws xav tau ib tug lub xub pwg, qiv ib tug pab txhais tes - xws li ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug txiv neej, raws li statistics, yim tawm ntawm kaum poj niam yuav tsis khi.

Qhov no - tus thawj thiab lub ntsiab yog vim li cas cov txiv neej dag. Thiab lwm yam - unwillingness ntawm ib co mej zeej ntawm lub zog txiv neej pw yuav tsum muaj zog thiab lub luag hauj lwm. Yog vim li cas rau qhov no yog tej zaum nyob rau hauv cov kev kawm ntawv cov nqi nyob rau hauv kev ruaj kho mob thiab laj kab tus tub, thiab ces ib tug tub hluas ntawm kuj zoo kawg lub neej. Infantile, asocial tau ntev lawm mob nyob rau hauv lub neej niaj hnub thiab feem xyuam rau txoj kev coj cwj pwm ntawm ob halves ntawm tib neeg. Tab sis ho rov, yog cov poj niam lawv zaub hais tias goodbye, nyob rau hauv tej lub sijhawm, rau cov txiv neej, alas, tsis muaj. Kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug txiv neej ua nyob rau hauv lub twb tsim schemes tsis muaj kev xwm txheej.

Nws tau ntev khaws cia hais tias ib tug txiv neej yuav siv sij hawm kev kho mob ntawm ib tug poj niam uas pab nws daws teeb meem, tau tawm ntawm nyuaj, nyob rau hauv lub kawg, nws muab nyiaj txiag stability. Txawm tias feminism yog tam sim no muaj zog, ntau thiab ntau cov poj niam yuav tau mus khwv tau nyiaj thiab tau them lawv siab nyiam, kev sib raug zoo qauv ntawm lub archive yog tseem tsis tau muab. Vim hais tias cov tib yam, uas muaj zog, kaj siab lug neeg uas slender ntxhais, slapping cov plaub muag nyob rau hauv lub caij npauj npaim tis - tsis muaj leej twg ntawm lawv yuav tsis ua siab ntev ntawm ib sab nws effeminate txiv neej cov neeg tsis muaj peev xwm sawv ntawm ib ncig saib tsib force. Ntseeg nyob rau hauv nws cov neej yav tom ntej khiav - tias yog dab tsi lawv xav tau!

Thiab leej twg xav tau ib tug txiv neej? Ib tug poj niam uas yuav txais nws rau nws yog dab tsi. Nrog rau tag nrho cov ceg, zamorochki lub ua tsis tau tejyam ambitions, txawj thiab weaknesses. Qhov no psychology ntawm cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam txawv. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, tsis txhob hnov qab txog kev tsis txaus, kev sib deev, muaj peev xwm thov tau lawv tus kheej, khiav hauv tsev neeg thiab txawm elementary - ua noj. Tiam sis tag nrho cov blunders nyob rau hauv cov cheeb tsam no txiv neej poj niam zam txim rau yog hais tias tus ob peb yuav to taub thiab sincere hwm. Yog hais tias ib tug poj niam yog tsis tau tsuas yog ib tug hluas nkauj rau nws, tab sis ib tug phooj ywg, ib tug txhim khu kev qha thiab loyal phooj ywg.

Lwm yog vim li cas - cov txiv neej xav tias koj yuav dag kom "txoj kev cawm seej." Tiv thaiv cov neeg koj hlub ntawm ruaj txhawj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias cov teeb tau tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej cov txhaum, mus nkaum qhov tseeb, thiaj li tsis mus thab cov teeb meem no - lawv pom nyob rau hauv no ib tug panacea rau ib tug ntau ntawm negativity. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, qhov no yog txoj hauj lwm ntawm ib tug qaib ntxhw, faus peb lub taub hau nyob rau hauv cov xuab zeb thaum txaus ntshai, tab sis lawv siv nws.

Ntawm no kuj yog xav tias tam sim no yog vim li cas cov txiv neej pw ...