Tsis txhob hais tias cov 20 yam rau kuv lug txhawb cov miv!

Sib txuas lus nrog lawv lug txhawb cov miv ntawm ua hauj lwm, ntawm chav kawm, tseem ceeb heev. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yuav pab tau koj tsis tsuas mus rau so thiab tau paub zoo tshaj li cov neeg tom ntej no mus rau leej twg koj siv ntau npaum li cas ntawm lawv lub sij hawm, tab sis kuj ua rau koj zoo dua. Txawm li cas los, muaj ntau yam uas kuv lug txhawb cov miv hais tias nws yog tsis tsim nyog, vim hais tias nws muaj peev xwm muab koj nyob rau hauv ib tug tsis zoo lub teeb. Yog li ntawd, peb muaj mus nrhiav tau tawm yog dab tsi 20 yam yuav tsum tsis txhob hais lus rau lug txhawb cov miv.

"Yuav ua li cas yog koj cov nyiaj hli?"

Qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog unprofessional, tab sis kuj sob lus nug. Vim li cas koj xav tau cov ntaub ntawv no? Koj xav mus yws mus rau lub taub hau ntawm lub fact tias koj yog underpaid? Los yog, on qhov tsis tooj, koj xav tham nrog cov thawj coj sawv cev ntawm lug txhawb cov miv nyob rau hauv ib qho los mus hais nws kom nws cov nyiaj hli?

"Kuv qiv ib co nyiaj?"

Muaj ntau ntawm peb tsawg kawg ib zaug nyob rau hauv lawv lub neej tom qab los mus ua hauj lwm pom tau tias rau sab laug lub hnab tawv pojniam nyob rau hauv tsev. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws yog heev qub qiv ib tug me me npaum li cas ntawm ib tug colleague rau noj su. Txawm li cas los, tsis txhob ua phem rau tus siab dawb siab zoo ntawm lug txhawb cov miv. Tom qab tag nrho, ib zaug koj tsis cia li nres luam nyiaj, tab sis yuav tsum hwm koj.

"Thaum kuv lo lus!"

Tsom on dab tsi koj hais qhov tseeb rau lub caij, muaj peev xwm muaj cov lus rov nyhuv. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg muaj peev xwm xav txog, thiab yog hais tias koj yog neeg ncaj ncees nrog lawv nyob rau ntawm lwm lub sij hawm.

"Koj puas tau hnov? ..»

Tsis li ntawd, ib qho yooj yim nyob rau ntawm lub sij hawm kom tsis txhob xaiv ntawm kev ua hauj lwm. Txawm li cas los, qhov no yuav tsum tau ua, vim hais tias cov tsis zoo cov lus hais txog ib tug neeg los ntawm lug txhawb cov miv yuav ua rau koj saib nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib yog heev npaum li cas tshaj ib qhov koj nyob nraum sib tham txog. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws yog yuav hais tias tus kwv uas xaiv paub txog koj cov lus uas yuav rhuav tau koj kev sib raug zoo.

"Kuv nyiam cov ris zaum ntawm koj"

Compliments tsis txwv. Txawm li cas los, nws yuav tsum ua tib zoo xav txog dab tsi koj xav qhuas. Piv txwv li, commenting nyob rau tsos ntawm lug txhawb cov miv xam tau tias yog unprofessional. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, ib txhia neeg tej zaum yuav suav nws raws li kev sib deev kev ua phem.

"Yog li ntawd raws li koj ib txwm ua teeb meem"

Xai xws li kev ntseeg, kev nom kev tswv, thiab kev kawm ntawv ntawm cov me nyuam, tej zaum pop up nyob rau hauv kev sib tham ntawm lug txhawb cov miv. Txawm li cas los, nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv yuav tsis muab tsis zoo cov lus hais txog cov neeg uas ua raws li no los yog tias lub tswv yim. Qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog unprofessional, tab sis kuj heev tsis hwm rau nws.

"Yog koj cev xeeb tub?"

Qab lo lus nug no yog tsuj tsawg yuav tsum tau ib tug zoo lus teb. Yog hais tias koj colleague tsis yeej cev xeeb tub, ces koj tej lus zoo li tiag ua txhaum rau nws. Thiab yog hais tias nws yeej yog nyob rau hauv ib qho kev nthuav txoj hauj lwm, tej zaum nws yuav tsis tau npaj txhij los sib tham txog nws lug txhawb cov miv. Yog li ntawd, hwm tus kheej ntawm lwm leej lwm tus thiab tsis txhob thab lawv nyob rau hauv no txoj kev.

"Thov txim mus thab"

Vim li cas koj hais dab tsi bothers ib tug neeg? Yog hais tias koj yeej thov txim txog ib yam dab tsi uas twb tsis tau ua li ntawd, txawm hais tias yog zoo ces tsis txhob ua rau nws? Ib tug tsim tshuaj yog tig mus rau ib tug colleague nrog cov lus hais: "Kuv thov txim, koj tau txais ib feeb?".

"Kuv tab tom nrhiav rau lwm txoj hauj lwm. Koj puas paub ib tug neeg uas xav tau kev pab neeg ua hauj lwm? "

Kev sib sab laj xws li lub hom phiaj uas cov npoj yaig yuav ua rau lawv instinctively pib deb lawv tus kheej los ntawm koj, vim hais tias lawv yuav paub tias sai sai no koj yuav tsis tau ib feem ntawm pab neeg no. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, tej zaum lawv yuav mej pav qhov no rau koj tus thawj saib xyuas. Qhov no tig ntawm cov txheej xwm tej zaum yuav raug nyob rau hauv lub fact tias koj yuav tau raug rho tawm haujlwm npaum li cas lawm dua los.

"Koj mus saib qhov no ua pob liab vog? Tag kis kuv mus rau tus kws kho mob yuav nrhiav tau tawm txog cov kev tshwm sim ntawm tus tsom xam "

Nrog rau cov kev zam ntawm koj tus txij nkawm los yog niam txiv yog tsis zoo li ib tug neeg xav kom pom los sis hnov txog tej lus rau lub xeev ntawm koj tus mob. Tsis txhob sib tham nyob rau hauv cov kev kawm lug txhawb cov miv tham txog ib mob taub hau los yog mob khaub thuas.

"Kuv xav tias ..."

Cov kev siv ntawm tej lus yuav siv tau, tab sis tsuas yog tias koj tsis tshua ntseeg nyob rau hauv ib yam dab tsi. Yog li ntawd, yog hais tias koj xav tau suab pov, tsis txhob siv xws li ceev, thiab cia li hais tias, piv txwv li: "Lub rooj sib tham yuav yuav tag rau peb teev."

"Kuv ras hais tias lawv tau hais kom nej ua raws nraim qhov kev nthuav qhia"

Lwm tau variant ntawm cov kab lus: "Nws yuav tsum tau kuv!". Nws yuav tsum tsis txhob xws qhia ntawm kev hlub. Kev cob qha cov ntawm koj yuav hais tias, "Nrog koj zoo siab!".

"Koj yuav hloov tau kuv thaum uas kuv so kom txaus nyob rau hauv lub Caribbean?"

Tsis tsim nyog lub sij hawm ntxiv them sai sai mus rau koj lub co-neeg ua hauj lwm ib tug luxurious txoj kev ua neej. Qhov no yuav ua rau resentment thiab xam khib thiab raug branded ib braggart.

"Thiab kuv caw?"

Tsis txhob hnov qab tias koj yog ib tug neeg laus. Tsis muaj leej twg yog yuam ua hauj lwm caw koj mus tag nrho cov txheej xwm. Tseem xav ib zaug ntxiv, yog koj npaj txhij los teb lo lus nug no.

"Koj puas xav mus siv ib tug weekend ua ke?"

Xws li ib tug mus kom ze yuav muaj kev sib deev connotations. Yog li ntawd, yog hais tias koj cia li xav mus ntsib ib tug colleague, nug nws yog hais tias nws xav mus ntsib nrog koj nyob rau lub weekend.

"Tsis muaj ib tug yuav pom yog hais tias kuv coj no thawv ntawm kas fes lub tsev"

Nws yog tsis zoo li hais tias xws li tus cwj pwm yuav tsum tau ntshai lug txhawb cov miv li ib yam dab tsi lwm yam tshaj li tub sab tub nyiag. Yog li ntawd tsis txhob ceeb yog tias nyob rau hauv lub kawg koj yuav poob lawv cov ntseeg thiab hwm koj.

"Peb tau txais ib lub txiv leej tub nyob rau hauv txaj!"

Nws yog tsis tsim nyog los qhia rau lawv cov lug txhawb cov miv cov ntsiab lus ntawm nws tus kheej lub neej, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog li intimate.

"Nws nyiag kuv lub tswv yim"

Tej zaum ib tug ntawm koj lug txhawb cov miv los yog txawm lub taub hau ntawm lub appropriated ntawm koj tej hauj lwm. Tab sis tsis txhob tham txog nws rau sawv daws. Nws yog zoo dua los tham txog qhov teeb meem nrog tus neeg ntawd ncaj qha.

"Kuv qev koj deodorant?"

Qhov no yog ib tug heev seeb lo lus nug. By nug nws, koj tsiv mus nyob rau Scope ntawm cov kev sib raug zoo, uas yog tsis tsim nyog.

"Kuv foob no lub tuam txhab!"

Yog hais tias koj npaj yuav ua ib daim ntawv sib foob tawm tsam lawv cov chaw ua hauj lwm, tham nrog ib tug kws lij choj, tab sis tsis nrog lwm leej lwm tus. Nyob rau tib lub yuav tsum coj lawv tus kheej nrog meej mom thiab mus txuas ntxiv mus rau siab ntso ua tau lawv tej hauj lwm, tsis muaj dragging nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm lug txhawb cov miv.