Raws li smartphones yog rhuav tseg koj kev sib raug zoo?

Cov kev sib nrauj npaum li cas nyob rau hauv Russia hovers nyob ib ncig ntawm 50 feem pua, tab sis nws tsis tseem zaj dabneeg. Raws li ib tug daim ntawv ntsuam xyuas los ntawm tus National chaw rau txoj kev tshawb no ntawm pej xeem lub tswv yim nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States, 60 feem pua ntawm cov neeg uas yog nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo, lawv hais tias lawv yuav tsis zoo siab heev nrog lawv. Feem ntau yog vim li cas hais tias yog lub npe hu rau peb rau ib ntev lub sij hawm - nws yog nyiaj teeb meem, dissatisfaction nyob rau hauv lub intimate lub neej thiab cov me nyuam ua ke. Tab sis tam sim no muaj lwm cov laj thawj uas txhua lwm yam ob peb txiav txim siab mus thov rau ib tug sib nrauj - smartphones.

Fabbing

Tsis li ntawd, ntev dhau los, zaum ua ib txoj kev kawm coj yuav ua li cas muaj teeb meem yuav ua tau lub smartphone rau ib tug kev sib raug zoo. Lawv suav hais tias yog kev tshiab phenomenon hu ua fabbing. Qhov no tsim txom ntawm gadgets thaum lub sij hawm sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus neeg. Nyob rau hauv lub ntsiab lus teb ntawm ib tug kev sib raug zoo, zaum tau kawm yuav ua li cas feem ntau romantic khub yog distracted los ntawm koj tus smartphone nyob rau hauv lub xub ntiag ntawm lub thib ob ib nrab. Nws hloov tawm hais tias ntau thiab ntau cov neeg yog distracted los ntawm smartphones. Piv txwv li, ib tug raug American xyuas koj cov smartphone txhua rau thiab ib tug ib nrab feeb, los yog hais txog 150 lub sij hawm ib hnub twg. Yog li, fabbing los ua ib tug tiag tiag qhov chaw uas muaj teeb meem. Piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev tshawb 70 feem pua ntawm cov neeg hais tias lawv fabbing ua txhaum lawv muaj peev xwm mus nrog romantic nrog ib tug neeg.

Muaj ntau ntawm peb paub dab tsi tshwm sim thaum lub sij hawm fabbinga: koj nyob ze rau koj tus khub, tab sis koj paub hais tias nws mloog yog lossi distracted. Tab sis koj kuj yuav tau nyob rau hauv nws qhov chaw, thaum pom tau hais tias nres mloog mus rau lub sib tham los ntawm scrolling los ntawm Facebook daim kab xev.

txoj kev tshawb no

Nyob rau hauv lawv txoj kev tshawb no, tus neeg tshawb fawb txiav txim siab mus xyuas lub txim ntawm xws kev tsim txom. Lawv surveyed 175 cov neeg laus uas yog nyob rau hauv ib tug romantic kev sib raug zoo, los ntawm thoob plaws lub tebchaws United States, thiab hais kom lawv mus ua ib cov lus nug. Piv txwv ntawm cov nqe lus uas tau raug incorporated rau hauv nws: "Kuv tus khub cia koj smartphone, qhov twg nws yuav tau mus ntsib nws thaum peb mus ua ke" thiab "Kuv tus khub siv lawv smartphone thaum peb nyob nraum ua ke."

Daim ntawv ntsuam xyuas cov neeg tuaj koom kuj siv lub scale uas ntsuas heev npaum li cas ib tug smartphone yog ib qhov chaw uas muaj teeb meem nyob rau hauv lawv cov kev sib raug zoo. Lwm scale ntsuas yuav ua li cas cov neeg txaus siab rau lawv cov kev sib raug zoo, koj lub neej, thiab yog hais tias lawv xav tias muaj kev nyuaj siab.

tau

Zaum tau nrhiav tau hais tias kev siv ntawm ntse tes yog ib tug teeb meem tiag tiag nyob rau hauv lub kev sib raug zoo, nrog rau cov nyiaj, pw ua niam txiv thiab cov me nyuam.

Cov neeg uas qhia theem ntawm fabbinga tseem tham txog qhov tseeb hais tias lawv officers tsis sib haum feem ntau tshwm sim vim txoj kev siv cov smartphones. Tsis ceeb, uas feem ntau ntawm cov kev siv ntawm smartphones yog txuam nrog poob theem ntawm kev sib raug zoo siab.

Yog li, nws zoo nkaus li uas thaum xub thawj siab ib muag innocent gadget tsam qhov zoo ntawm cov kev sib raug zoo, yog koj nquag siv nws nyob rau hauv lub xub ntiag ntawm ib tug romantic tus khub. Qhov no muaj peev xwm tsim ib tug domino nyhuv, vim hais tias cov kev kawm no tseem pom tias thaum twg peb tsis zoo siab nyob rau hauv kev hlub, nws kuj yuav tsis tau txaus siab rau lub neej tag nrho. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, cov neeg no yog cov yuav los qhia kev nyuaj siab mus ob peb vas.

Yog vim li cas fabbing tiv thaiv cov tus khub yog tau ua xws puas tsuaj rau lub kev sib raug zoo?

Muaj tsawg kawg yog ob tau piav qhia rau qhov no phenomenon. Offset hypothesis assumes tias lub sij hawm siv rau lub smartphone, displaces (los yog txo) qhov ntau tseem ceeb sis raug zoo nrog tus thib ob ib nrab, weakening kev sib raug zoo. Ob, zaum hu ua teeb meem kev tshawb xav. Cias muab, lub smartphone yog ib qhov chaw uas muaj teeb meem, uas ua rau yus quarrels. Qhov no, ntawm chav kawm, muaj peev xwm ntxeev koj kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus khub.

Yog li ntawd yog dab tsi xaus yuav ua li cas?

Txawm yog hais tias peb tsis txhob muab ntau tseem ceeb fabbingu, txhua txhua lub sij hawm nws yuav ua rau tsis kaj siab tus cwj pwm txawv nyob rau hauv tus khub. Tseeb, nyob rau hauv ib lub siab, peb romantic nrog ib tug neeg xav siv lub sij hawm nrog lawv cov xov tooj, tsis nrog peb. Qhov no yuav ua rau cov kev xav tias koj tus khub tsis value koj, nrog rau cov tshwm sim hais tias koj yuav tsis xav tias kev ruaj ntseg nyob rau hauv cov kev sib raug.