Leej twg yog tus sab ntsuj plig niam txiv ntawm tus me nyuam, thiab yuav ua tau tus ntoo khaub lig li ob peb lub sij hawm?

Ua tus ntoo khaub lig - yog ib tug muaj siab thiab kauj ruam tseem ceeb. Ua ntej pom zoo rau xws li ib tug lub tswv yim, koj yuav tsum paub tag nrho cov yam thiab nuances. Piv txwv li, godparents yuav tsis tshua muaj orthodox ntseeg. Tsis yog tus twg Muslims los yog Catholic, los yog txawm atheists. Txawm tias tag nrho cov superstitions, cev xeeb tub los yog txiv tus poj niam yuav godmother. Ib qho ntawm feem tseem ceeb sib nrauj yog hais tias leej niam thiab leej txiv nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub yuav tsis tau godparents. Tsis tas li ntawd, lawv yuav ua tsis tau (rau cov tib tus me nyuam) cov neeg uas sib yuav lawm.

Thaum xaiv godparents yuav tsum paub tias cov neeg no yuav tsum nco ntsoov ua kevcai raus dej. Rau tus so, koj yuav tsum cia siab rau lawv tus kheej cov kev xav. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog koj tus cwj pwm thiab kam ntawm cov neeg yuav tsum tau ib tug ntawm sab ntsuj plig xib fwb rau tus me nyuam. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, koj tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav tsuas yog ib godparent. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas nws yog ntawm tib pw ua niam txiv.

Feem ntau cov neeg muaj tsis ntau versed nyob rau hauv lub Cim Nco Txog, nug cov nqe lus nug: "Yog nws tau mus yuav ib tug ntoo khaub lig ib tug ob peb lub sij hawm?" Tswvyim ntawm cov ntawv no yog heev divergent. Yuav pib, seb leej twg yog ib tug godfather, thiab dab tsi yog nws lub luag haujlwm. Thaum ib tug neeg yog raug caw tuaj koom los ua ib lub godfather, nws thawj lo lus nug mus ib yam dab tsi zoo li no: "Kuv yog dab tsi yuav tsum ua li cas?" Qhov no txoj hauj lwm tsis muaj xws li tej zog-intensive kev ua ub no. Lub ntsiab ntawm lub ntoo khaub lig yog los muab ib tug me nyuam kawm ntawv thiab kev ntxiv dag zog rau lub Koom Txoos lub neej, raws li nws tau tsis tu ncua coj cov ntaus nqi font los ntawm lub tuam tsev. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, nws yog tsim nyog nyob rau hauv lub hnub ntawm lub Cim Nco Txog yuav tsum tau muab nws ib tug ntoo khaub lig thiab cov saw, tsis muaj teeb meem los ntawm uas lawv yog hlau, raws li ntev raws li cov tsoos orthodox ntaub ntawv.

Tseem ceeb kom paub: nws yog ntseeg hais tias lub hnub ntawm lub txiav txim zaum kawg nrog lub Procession kev rau txoj kev kawm ntawv godson yuav mas raws li zoo raws li rau lawv tus kheej tus me nyuam.

Yog nws tau mus yuav ib tug ntoo khaub lig ib tug ob peb lub sij hawm? Yeej nws tsuas yog koj kev txiav txim siab. Ib txhia ntseeg hais tias yog ib tug poj niam pom zoo yuav tsum tau godmother rau lub thib ob lub sij hawm, nws tshem tawm ntawm tus ntoo khaub lig nrog tus thawj godchild. Tab sis lub tsev teev ntuj ua hauj lwm refute no saib, xa mus rau lub fact tias cov niam muab yug mus rau nws ob tus me nyuam, tsis muab ua ntej. Yog li no. Nyob rau hauv sab ntsuj plig niam txiv muaj peev xwm muaj ntau yam cov me nyuam, raws li ntev raws li nws muaj lub dag lub zog mus thov Vajtswv thiab saib xyuas ntawm tag nrho cov.

Ua ntej wondering txog yuav ua li cas koj yuav ua tau ib tug kos npe rau ntawm tus ntoo khaub lig li ob peb lub sij hawm los yog tsis tau, koj yuav tsum nrhiav seb leej twg feem ntau yuav tsis ua rau lawv. Piv txwv li, ib tug neeg coj tsis tau lub godfather, uas hloov txoj kev ntseeg los yog txoj kev ua neej impious. Yog hais tias tej yam no muaj tshwm sim twb uas twb muaj lawm tus ntoo khaub lig, lub Union yuav tsum tau ua haujlwm thiab hais kom lwm tus neeg txog lub tus me nyuam.

Yog nws tau mus yuav ib tug ntoo khaub lig li ob peb lub sij hawm rau cov tub hluas? Muaj yog ib lub tswv yim hais tias nws yuav ua ib yam ntawm ob rau cov me nyuam uas sib txawv kuj. Hais tias yog, rau ib tug me nyuam tub thiab ib tug ntxhais. Tiam sis nws kuj tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Nws kuj yog ib tug misconception hais tias ib tug poj niam yuav tsum ua tus ntoo khaub lig xub thawj tus me nyuam tub ua ib tug ntxhais, goddaughter tsim teeb meem rau yav tom ntej sib yuav. Qhov no yog tag nrho cov nkaus tib neeg tej kev teev dab.
Tom qab nyeem ntawv no tsab xov xwm koj yuav tsum tsis muaj lus nug txog seb puas yuav ua tau ib tug ntoo khaub lig ib tug ob peb lub sij hawm raws li sai tau. Tam sim no uas koj paub tag nrho cov ntsiab lus, thiab muaj yog tsis muaj dab tsi los mus tiv thaiv koj los ntawm ua ib tug zoo ntawm sab ntsuj plig rau cov niam txiv.