Nrhiav seb yog dab tsi npau suav - tus me nyuam, cov me nyuam, cov me nyuam mos

Cov me nyuam, raws li koj paub, lub paj ntawm lub neej. Tab sis seb lawv yog harmless nyob rau hauv peb tus npau suav, nyob rau hauv kev muaj tiag? Muaj ntau cov tub ntxhais cov poj niam thiab cov ntxhais tu txog qhov teeb meem, yog dab tsi npau suav: tus me nyuam, cov me nyuam mos, cov me nyuam, nws yog tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau cov tswv cuab ntawm lub fairer poj niam txiv uas tsis tau sib yuav, hluas heev rau ib ntev lub sij hawm tos rau qhov pib ntawm ib tug wanted uas cev xeeb tub los yog twb nyob rau hauv ib qho kev nthuav txoj hauj lwm. Thiab ntau yam ntawm lawv yog cov tsis xav nyob rau hauv cia li yog dab tsi npau suav tus me nyuam los yog cov me nyuam, tab sis yog dab tsi npau suav nws yog cov me nyuam mos, cov tub hluas los yog hluas nkauj, koj tus kheej los yog lwm tus neeg tus me nyuam, raws li tau zoo raws li xav nyob rau hauv qhov kev txiav txim ntawm tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm pw tsaug zog (quaj, pw tsaug zog, kev pub niam mis, cov dab dej ntxuav, nws tuag rau ib tug me nyuam tus me nyuam, thiab lwm yam). Teb rau tag nrho cov lus nug, cia li xav mus taw tes kom paub tias tus me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm pw tsaug zog, zoo li tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv koj lub neej - nws yog feem ntau puab, tab sis kaj siab lug. Rau ntau tus npau suav cov phau ntawv cov me nyuam yug ntawm tus me nyuam mus ntsib ib tug poj niam nrog nws - nws yog ib tsev neeg zoo siab thiab txoj kev vam meej. Txawm li cas los, cov kev cai yeej ib txwm muaj kev zam.

Ib tug me nyuam me me nyob rau hauv ib lub neej theem ib tug ntau ntawm teeb meem thiab tej teeb meem, tiam sis peb muaj peev xwm tiv ntse nrog lawv. Thiab nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav, Yog hais tias koj muaj peev xwm saib koj tus kheej nrog koj tus me nyuam - nws tsuas txhais tau tias koj yuav sai sai no tuaj nyob ib qho teeb meem uas yuav yooj yim daws. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, ib tug ceeb toom tsis coj mus rau cov neeg mob nyob rau hauv uas qhov kev txiav txim koj tsis yog ib tug tshwj xeeb. Yog hais tias koj pom ib tug neeg lwm tus uas muaj ib tug me nyuam me me, ces tau npaj txhij mus kho yuam kev thiab daws teeb meem rau lwm leej lwm tus. Ntxim hlub thiab funny tus me nyuam yog tog twg los ib tug muaj zog phooj ywg, ib tug kev sib nrig sib hlub nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag. Mos liab tus ntxhais los yog tus tub - mus rau lub zoo kev zoo siab, npau suav txhais lus Zhou heralds-guna, los yog xav tias yuav nyob rau hauv lub nyob ze yav tom ntej ib tug qab ntxiag surprise - hais tias hauv tus npau suav phau ntawv ntawm lub neej tshiab nimno poj niam.

Tam sim no wb tham txog qhov sib txawv kev ua ub no ntawm cov me nyuam thaum lub sij hawm pw tsaug zog, thiab zoo li cas npau suav. Tus me nyuam quaj, ntau tus npau suav cov phau ntawv, kev noj qab nyob teeb meem los yog tej disappointments nyob rau hauv lub neej. Txawm li cas los, Freud tus npau suav phau ntawv, ib tug quaj tus me nyuam sawv cev rau ib tug orgasm (raws li nyob rau hauv lub fact tias cov me nyuam, nyob rau hauv nws lub tswv yim, sawv cev rau lub genitals). Koj ywj pheej los ntawm lwm tus neeg thiab disregard rau lub tsis tsim nyog tawm tswv yim thiab kev xav ua ib lub cim ib tug me nyuam mus taug kev ib leeg los yog ua rau nws cov thawj ywj siab kauj ruam. Nkag tus me nyuam, raws li nyob rau hauv lub neej, ua rau koj xav ceev thiab sai sai ua kev txiav txim siab raws li yog hais ib yam dab tsi tshwm sim. Koj yog paub txaj muag thiab trusting, yog tias koj pom nyob rau hauv tus npau suav ntawm ib tug pw tsaug zog tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias ib tug poj niam muaj ib tug npau suav hais tias nws yog tu tus me nyuam, nws yuav tsum tau txais kev dag los ntawm ib tug txiv neej uas yeej tso siab rau boundlessly. Sim tsis txhob tso siab rau cov neeg uas tsis nyob rau hauv koj lub vajvoog ntawm cov phooj ywg los yog cov txheeb ze, yog koj pom nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav yuav ua li cas pub niam mis rau koj tus menyuam, los yog ob lub mis koj pub rau koj tus kheej. Tab sis nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, Lavxias teb sab npau suav phau ntawv, paub zoo tias, yog koj pom tias lawv lawv tus kheej yog mis-pub mov rau tus me nyuam, ces tus tom ntej no endeavor yuav coj cov ntaub ntawv thiab kev coj tsis ncaj siab, txawm lub fact tias lawv yuav ua tau heev troublesome. Nws tsis Bode zoo, Yog hais tias koj noj cov tes ntawm ib tug me nyuam mob nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav - kev txom nyem, kev puas hlwb kev nyuaj siab, kev tu siab.

Yog vim li cas npau suav ntawm ib tug me nyuam-ib tug ntxhais thiab ib tug me nyuam tub? Tus ntxhais, raws li ib tug txoj cai, rau hauv tus npau suav ntawm ib tug muaj kev vam meej sib yuav. Thaum nyob rau hauv lub qub hnub nws twb ntseeg tau tias tus me nyuam foreshadows txuj ci tseem ceeb, piv txwv li, Koj yuav tau tag thaum dab tsi. Yog hais tias peb muaj ib tug me tub, koj paub - mus cuag zoo-ua nyob rau hauv lub neej, koj yuav tau ua ib los yog rau nws tus kheej, thiab tos kev pab los ntawm lub yuav tsum tsis txhob. Tab sis muaj ntau yam yog feem ntau txaus siab rau cov nqe lus nug, yog dab tsi ib tug npau suav kom muaj ib tug me nyuam. Ib zaug ntxiv, yog hais tias peb coj tus nqi ntawm ib tug ob peb tus npau suav-phau ntawv, cov me nyuam yug ntawm ib tug me nyuam yog cov tsos ntawm tej kev npaj rau lub neej yav tom ntej los yog lub rov tshwm sim ntawm tswv yim tshiab. Tab sis lwm yam tshaj li hais tias, idiomatic npau suav phau ntawv muaj ib tug nqi ntawm qhov tus kawm tiav ntawm txhua rooj plaub (nyob rau hauv ntau hais tias "thaum kawg muab yug"). Yog hais tias ib tug cev xeeb tub poj niam los yog ib tug txiv neej, uas nws tus poj niam "muab yug" saib yug, nws yog ib lub zoo li tus me nyuam tub nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg.

Yog hais tias los ntawm cov me nyuam yug ntawm ib tug npau suav, txhua yam yog tseeb, tias qhov no yog dab tsi ib tug npau suav kom muaj ib tug hluas nkauj los yog ib tug me nyuam tub - tsis muaj meej. Ib txhia downers tso siab tau tias yog hais tias tus npau suav ntawm yug me nyuam ntawm ib tug hluas nkauj, cov kev muaj tiag yog ib tug me nyuam tub los yog vice versa. Tab sis, raws li kev xyaum qhia tau hais tias, qhov no yog tsis ib txwm tuaj tseeb.