Txhua tus niamtxiv xav kom nws cov me nyuam kom loj hlob ib tug tsim nyog tug tswv cuab ntawm cov haiv neeg thiab ib tug neeg zoo. Qhia cov ntshaw tus yeeb yam zoo rau koj tus me nyuam, txhua txhua leej niam yuav hu nrog lawv nyob ua siab zoo. Tab sis nws yog li ntawd paub daws teeb tswvyim uas piav txog nws thawj thawj-voom yog heev yooj yim. Nws tsis, cov tswv yim ce rau pab! Wb sim mus ua ib tug daim ntawv teev cov zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam txoj cai tam sim no.
Tsim Nyog ua zoo nyob rau hauv txhua txhua qhov teeb meem no
Peb yuav tsum pib nrog qhov kev sib tham zoo heev, Yog hais tias qhov no lub ntsiab lus yuav muaj cuam tshuam thaum lub sij hawm "nkag" nyob rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv tab sis kuj nyob rau ntawm lub tsev cov niam txiv yuav tsum xyuam xim rau cov me nyuam txoj kev kawm ntawv nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb pab qhia rau txhua tus me nyuam ib tug yooj yim lub tswv yim: Yog hais tias peb txhua tus yuav ua siab zoo thiab siab dawb rau tag nrho cov uas nyob ib ncig nws - lub ntiaj teb no yuav zoo dua. Treat lwm tus xav tau txoj kev uas koj xav kom lawv kho koj. Cov kev kho mob yuav tsum tau tej tsiaj txhu, xwm thiab tag nrho cov cheeb tsam surrounding raws li ib tug tag nrho. Nco ntsoov hais tias cov me nyuam yog ib qhov nyuaj rau xav tias abstractly thiab feem. Nws yog vim li no, nws ua rau kev nkag siab rau kos tuaj ua ke ib daim ntawv teev kev zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam. Nrog rau qhov no hint, tus me nyuam yuav to taub thiab nco ntsoov raws nraim li cas yog zoo thiab yuav tau txais zoo dua. Yuav ua li cas sau rau ntawm xws li ib tug daim ntawv teev? Hauv qab no, peb muab ib tug ntau yam ntawm cov piv txwv, rau lub yooj yim ntawm tam sim ntawd pab tau kom muaj ib tug loj daim ntawv teev cov "tseem ceeb" tus neeg mob, uas yog nqa tawm los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm, thiab me me - rau txhua txhua hnub. Tab sis nco ntsoov mus thov ua ib tug txoj cai - ib hnub twg tsis muaj ib tug zoo puav pheej!
Lub luag yuav sov sawv daws!
Nws yuav zoo li uas nyob rau hauv no txoj - thawj luag ntxhi passers los yog neeg muag khoom nyob rau hauv lub khw? Thiab tam sim no, comrades, cov neeg laus, nco ntsoov, nrog dab tsi qhia koj feem ntau mus tawm rau hauv txoj kev. Qhov ntawd yog txoj cai, thiab nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, yog hais tias tag nrho cov tau ntxhi rau txhua lwm yam, nyob yuav ntau npaum li cas kev lom zem thiab tso dag tso luag! Qhia rau koj tus me nyuam ntau npaum li cas nws txhais tau tias xws li ib tug siab zoo, thiab yuav ua li cas ib qho tseem ceeb nws yog ib txwm zoo rau kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus neeg. Cia nws nrog cov yam khoom no "luag cov neeg" pib koj daim ntawv teev cov zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam. Tab sis koj muaj peev xwm tseem tos txais kuv cov neeg nyob ze thiab sellers ntawm lub khw muag khoom noj nyob rau hauv uas koj tsis tu ncua mus saib. Cia li sim nws thiab tsis ntev cov teg num coj los txhua leej txhua tus nyob ib ncig ntawm. Thiab ces los ntawm txoj kev nplij siab hauv tsev koj yuav tsis tau txais lub "txawv teb chaws hostile ntiaj teb no", thiab nyob rau hauv ib haiv neeg ntawm qub phooj ywg.
Muab ob peb vas - nws yog ib
Muaj ntau ntawm peb tsis tau txaus mloog nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo rau lwm tus. Tab sis ua kom haum ib tug txiv neej yog heev yooj yim. Koj yuav ua tau ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab rau tus xib hwb ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, los yog txawm ib tug neeg txawv ntawm txoj kev. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, nws yog ib qho zoo, tiam sis feem ntau peb cia li tsis nco qab txog nws. Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas tsis ua ib daim ntawv teev tej yam zoo uas yuav ua tau ib tug me nyuam yam khoom "pleasing lwm tus"? Thiab yog hais tias peb tsuas xaiv los tham, ib yam dab tsi kiag li cwj pwm sib txawv yuav tsum mus kom ze kum thiab txawv neeg. Cov niam txiv nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub yuav tsum tsis txhob liam rau thawj-voom vim hais tias nws muab nws ib co me me tshaj plaws schoolmate qhia cwj mem thiab tsis nco qab tos nws thiab txiav txim siab los kho txhua lwm yam nrog rau cov khoom qab zib. On qhov tsis tooj, txhawb tej yam ua, vim hais tias, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, nws yog ib lub siab dawb siab zoo.
Ceeb Toom, xav tau kev pab!
Feem ntau cov me nyuam zoo thiab sympathetic los ntawm qhov. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawm 4-5 xyoo, tus me nyuam pom tau tias haum ywj siab thiab "neeg laus" thiab yog npaj txhij mus ua ib tug ntau yam ntawm kev txiav txim thiab ua lag ua luam. Remarkably, qhov no yog lig txawj sib yaum, rau lawv tus kheej kho mob tus me nyuam yog npaj txhij los mus txais tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis qhuas. Txhawb kom koj tus me nyuam los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm mus nrhiav ib ncig thiab nug: "Leej twg thiab yog dab tsi Kuv yuav ua li cas?". Txawm tias ib tug thawj voom yuav coj ib pawg ntawm cov phau ntawv sau rau cov xib fwb, coj ib co ntawv ua tom tsev los yog coj ib feem nyob rau hauv lub ntxuav ntawm lub tsev kawm ntawv chaw ua hauj lwm. Pab tej zaum yuav tsum tau, thiab ib tug ua kom tiav Hmoob - txhais Pensioner nyob rau hauv txoj kev, qhia lub sij hawm los yog txoj kev - tag nrho cov "tho kev" piv txwv ntawm txhua lub caij yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag. Thiab ntawm cov hoob kawm, tsis muaj ib tug yuav tsum nyob twj ywm tseg yog hais tias muaj yog ib yam dab tsi extraordinary. Txhua tus me nyuam yuav tsum paub tias yog hais tias nws tau ua tim khawv qhov teeb meem no, cia koj tus kheej hais tias nws yuav tsis tau, nws yuav tsum tam sim ntawd hu rau kev pab cov neeg laus thiab qhia txhua yam uas nws paub txog qhov teeb meem.
Kev saib xyuas ntawm peb me me thiab cov kwv tij
Child psychologists nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb no hais tias ib tug me nyuam txoj kev loj hlob yog heev pab tau kom muaj ib tug tsiaj. Tsiaj tsev qhia me nyuam lub luag hauj lwm, txoj kev khuv leej thiab kev kho mob. Thawj voom los yog laus dua me nyuam yuav kiag saib xyuas ntawm koj tus kheej rau yuav luag txhua tus tsiaj, uas yog muaj nyob rau hauv ib lub tawb, ib tug miv los yog ib tug dog me me thiab medium loj. Tab sis txawm yog tias koj tsev neeg twb muaj ib tug tsiaj, daim ntawv teev cov zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau yuav tsum tau kom muaj xws li tsiaj noj qab haus huv raws li ib tug tag nrho. Pub cov noog nrog ib tug me nyuam ntawm txoj kev, tsis muaj tsev nyob miv los yog aub. Rau cov noog yuav tau ua ib tug noog los yog noog feeder. Heev zoo, Yog hais tias lub tsev kawm ntawv kuj muaj ib tug petting zoo, qhov twg cov me nyuam muaj peev xwm tsis tsuas saib cov tsiaj, tab sis kuj tu rau lawv.
Xwm, dhau lawm, yuav tsum tau koj kev koom tes
Xav txog yuav ua li cas feem ntau koj yuav ua li cas zoo deeds? Daim ntawv teev cov me nyuam ntawm cov ntawv no yuav tsum muaj xws li kev txhawj xeeb rau cov ecology thiab qhov ib puag ncig. Mus rau taug kev ua si los yog cia li rau phoj? Tsis txhob hnov qab coj lub thoob khib nyiab hnab, tab sis, theej ob peb. Thiab ua ntej koj pib noj mov, los yog pib li ib tug camp, nug tus me nyuam kom tau tawm nyob rau hauv xaiv tshem. Feem ntau cov khib nyiab dag nyob ib ncig ntawm nyob rau hauv peb ob txhais taw, txawm nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej tiaj nraum qaum tsev. Tsis txhob txaj muag tawm nws yog, tiam sis raws li nws tom qab yuav ua tau zoo mus rau ib tug taug kev nyob rau hauv ib tug huv qhov chaw. Cov me nyuam kuj tseem yuav tawg nrog nws niam nws txiv ib tug me me paj txaj nyob ze ntawm lub tsev los yog loj hlob paj nyob rau hauv tsev, nyob rau lub sam thiaj rau hauv lub sov lub sij hawm ntawm lub xyoo. Daim ntawv teev cov zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam 7 xyoo ntawm lub hnub nyoog tej zaum kuj pab rau cov niam txiv thiab niam tais nyob rau ntawm lawv lub caij ntuj sov tsev.
Yuav tau mus muab, thiab koj tau txais ntau
Nyob rau hauv txhua txhua lub tsev muaj ntau yam uas tsis yog siv thiab yog tsis zoo li yuav tsum tau yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej. Tab sis ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv lub sij hawm no ntawm dire xav tau lawv, thiab nyob rau lub sij hawm yuav tsis muaj nyiaj yuav cia li mus thiab yuav nws. Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas tsis siv ib tug caij nplooj ntoos hlav ntxuav thiab tau tshem ntawm txhua yam ruaj. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, yuav ua rau xws li ib tug zoo ua hauj lwm cov me nyuam yuav tsum tsuas nrog rau kev pom zoo thiab kev pab los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Cov neeg laus yuav tsum qhuab qhia ib tug me nyuam mus tau yooj yim ib feem nrog cov khaub ncaws uas nws yog tsis nyob rau hauv loj, bored nrog cov khoom ua si thiab lwm yam los mus siv yog tsis npaj. Yuav ua li cas nrog tag nrho cov no wealth? Khaub ncaws yuav tsum pauv mus rau ib co charitable lub koom haum, sim muab koj tus kheej cov khoom rau cov phooj ywg thiab cov acquaintances. Nco ntsoov ib tug yooj yim txoj cai: qhov ntau koj muab, qhov ntau koj tau txais - nws yog txoj cai ntawm lub ntug uas tiag tiag xwb. Hais txog sib hlub sib txhawb, feem ntau yog 7-8 xyoo twb tag nrho cov me nyuam muaj lawv tus kheej nyiaj "tawm ntawm hnab tshos cov nuj nqis." Niaj hnub no, muaj ntau yam khoom chaw zov me nyuam thiab cov pej xeem tsev yog thawv rau donations, muaj tus me nyuam los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm los txo lawv tsawg kawg yog ib ob peb ntawm cov nyiaj npib, vim hais tias nws yog heev ua tau, hais tias cov nyiaj yuav cawm ib tug neeg lub neej los yog txhim kho nws cov quality!
Yuav kom ua zoo, thiab yuav ua tau nyob rau hauv koj tus kheej lub tsev
Ntau cov niam txiv muaj wondering seb puas los yog tsis txhob muaj xws li ib daim ntawv teev kev zoo deeds rau cov thawj lub tsev kawm ntawv cov me nyuam ib tug ntau yam ntawm nyias muaj nyias haujlwm thiab cov kev cai ntawm kev sib txuas lus nruab nrab ntawm cov neeg nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg? Xav txog nws, yuav pab tau ib tug neeg los ntawm cov tsev neeg ua homework - nws yog ib tug zoo puav pheej, los yog ua kom haum niam los yog txiv ib khob dej tshuaj yej, ib tug khoom plig rau tsis muaj yog vim li cas? Lo lus teb rau ob qho tib si cov lus nug no yog. Qhov no txhais tau tias tsis txawm lub nplij siab los ntawm koj tus kheej lub tsev, peb txhua tus muaj peev xwm ua tej yam zoo. Daim ntawv teev cov tsev kawm ntawv uas muaj hnub nyoog cov me nyuam yuav muaj xws li tsis tau tsuas yog kev pab "nyob rau lub teb" thiab saib xyuas ntawm cov tsiaj, tab sis kuj muaj ntau lwm yam qab ntxiag thiab pab tau tej yam. Thawj-qib yuav pab nyob rau hauv lub upbringing thiab kev kho mob ntawm cov me nyuam yau, yog tias muaj, thov cov txheeb ze uas muaj khoom plig rau cov tsis muaj yog vim li cas, thiab kom muaj kev pab nyob rau hauv yuav luag txhua lub lag luam - los ntawm tu mus rau ib tug mus nyob rau hauv lub khw.
Txawm li cas los, koj yuav ua li cas ntxiv!
Ib tug ntau ntawm zoo cwj pwm txawv theem me nyuam yaus thiab neeg laus koom nyob rau hauv ntau yam pab cov txheej xwm. Ib tug nthuav tswv yim rau tsev kawm ntawv - los ntawm lub sij hawm rau lub sij hawm mus npaj ib qho chaw twg rau ib lub tsev laus. Thaum lub sij hawm cov rooj sib tham, cov menyuam kawm ntawv ntawm cov tsev kawm ntawv muaj peev xwm tsuas sib txuas lus nrog pog thiab yawg, handing khoom plig ua rau lawv tus kheej txhais tes, npaj me me concerts. Lub koom haum ntawm tej kev tshwm sim yog yooj yim heev, tab sis cov nyhuv ntawm nws yog tawm. Tib neeg laus cov neeg zoo siab heev yam xim, thiab cov me nyuam qab ntxiag thiab nthuav kom xav tias tseem ceeb heev. Yog tsis tau hais tias zoo tus cwj pwm txawv ua zoo deeds? Daim ntawv teev cov me nyuam txoj kev Class 2 tej zaum yuav kuj muaj xws li cov txheej xwm rau thawj qib los yog txawm yau patronage. Leej twg tab sis lub tej thib ob-qib yog tau pab nyob rau hauv kev kawm rau cov neeg uas nyuam qhuav tau tuaj mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv, thiab pab daws tau tej teeb meem los ntawm daws laces li tus kheej kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov phooj ywg?
Los ntawm lub tswv yim rau siv!
Koj twb zaum twb sau ib daim ntawv teev ntev uas zoo deeds rau cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab tom tsev, tab sis nco ntsoov cia ib tug ob peb kab kawg dawb paug. Txhawb kom koj tus me nyuam los xav zoo thiab muab lawv tus kheej variations. Ib txhia ntawm lawv tej zaum yuav zoo li zoo heev thiab unfeasible, thiab lwm yam yog tseem ua tau kom sim mus ua ib tug kev muaj tiag. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, tsuas yog nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim ntawm cov me nyuam txoj kev koom tes nyob rau hauv no ua hauj lwm tsis tiav. Xav ua ke raws li nws yog tau los twb paub lawm peb lub hom phiaj thiab nco ntsoov mus koom cov tub ntxhais txawj xav nyob rau hauv qhov kev siv. Txawm cov rog ntawm ib tsev neeg los yog lub tsev kawm ntawv hauv chav kawm ntawv, koj yuav ua li cas ib tug ntau yam ntawm tej yam zoo, ib daim ntawv teev cov me nyuam hauv chav kawm ntawv 1 yuav tsum ntxiv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj yog ua tag nrho cov no nrog ib lub plawv ntshiab thiab lig disinterested.